Facilitator Journal | Issue #0411, September 29, 2009
Do you ever struggle with how much you should step in and take control of your groups as opposed to letting them sort things out themselves? Read this week's article, Are
You a Catalyst or a Control Freak? to find out and explore the challenge of the professional
facilitator trying to walk the fine line between taking
control of their group vs. being a catalyst for the group's
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You a Catalyst or a Control Freak?
Is Your Style Restricting Group
Group Process Skill
step into a group as facilitators we know that our presence
will definitely change the group dynamic, hopefully in a very
positive way. However, when playing the facilitative role,
do you ever question how much "control" you should
exert on your groups? If so, you're not alone. Walking the
fine line between controlling and catalyzing your groups isn't always easy.
Let's look briefly at the definitions of control and catalyze.
Control: To exercise authoritative or dominating influence
over; direct. To hold in restraint; check.
Catalyze: To modify. To bring about; initiate. To bring
about fundamental change in; transform.
There will be times when you'll need to exercise control
over your group. But most of the time I believe that you'll want to
be a catalyst instead. Lets' look at some tips
on how to do this.
have to admit that at times, I still catch myself exercising
undue control over my groups. But my intentions are always
pure, I promise!
I think I get controlling for a number of valid reasons.
For example, if I'm trying to cover too much in too little
time, I tend to be more rigid and controlling of participant
input and tend to be more directive. If I'm more concerned
with the intellectual content than the emotional aspect of
the process, I can get a little uptight. Or, if I feel that
the group is heading off on a tangent, I feel that it's
my job to bring them "back on course."
Here are some general tips to help
you be more catalytic.
- Use a light touch when working with your groups, even
when things get heavy. Even when you need to provide direction, remember that your participants are all doing the
best they can. You can be very effective by simply asking
questions and making suggestions leaving "control"
of the group to the group.
For instance, "It seems
to me this line of discussion is moving us away from our stated
goals. Do you want to continue on this course or should we
make a course correction?"
- Release your need to exert power and control. Now
I could be wrong here, but there may be some of us who get
a thrill out of having the power that comes from being "center
stage." If I was to be totally honest, I'd have to say
I have some of that myself. But when I'm at my best, I realize
that my real power and my biggest thrill for that matter,
is expressed when I find a way to totally empower a group
to the point that they don't need me so much anymore. This
may take a shift in perspective.
Consider the possibility
that the highest good you can do as a facilitator is to help
groups self-facilitate, which may lead to them getting along
without you. Just as a catalyst is consumed in a chemical
reaction that yields a new form, let your ego dissolve in service to the transformation of your groups.
- Encourage participants to interact directly with each
other. You can invite this as part of your introduction
to an event and even include it in your ground rules. Let
participants know that you encourage them to interact directly
with each other within the group, to ask clarifying questions,
and even to help draw others in to be heard.
- Coach participants in the basics of facilitation as you
facilitate them. Though some groups invite you in to catalyze
them toward a specific solution, there are almost always opportunities
for you to coach participants in communication and process
skills. Skills that will help them work better together
by virtue of their enhanced ability to self-facilitate.
If this truly happens your work will leave a legacy in its
- Trust the wisdom of the group--unless it's hiding.
Assume that the higher wisdom of your groups--that aspect
which knows what needs to be done or discussed--is always
the best facilitator. However, at times this wisdom may be
submerged beneath individuals fears, insecurities, and confusion.
When this is the case, you'll probably need to exert more
control to help the group work through processes that free
their collective wisdom.
So in a sense we might suggest that your need to control a
group is directly proportional to a group's inability to effectively
direct itself. As you help your groups realize their own power
and control, you can back off and operate more as a catalyst
and focus on the finer points of facilitation.
Here's a comment from Betsy Healey of
KM Consulting with regard to her use of the above perspective.
I have recently been learning the exact things you expressed about using facilitator skills to give control to the group. I do love being the center of attention, but the growth of the group as they interact and tap into their own power is even more fun.
As a control freak facilitator, my job is to help the group set clear
expectations and objectives and then help them stick to them.
As a catalyst facilitator, my job is to provide a framework and nudges
so they can tap into their own abilities, emotions, and synergies. As
long as I do a good job of framing how I want the group to step up, they
ALWAYS exceed my expectations and hopes with cooperation, additional
energy, deeper commitment, and better results.
The hard part is doing this on the fly. Part of my preparation is to anticipate a few of the inevitable deviations from the design, and then think of some potential ways to take advantage of those deviations. That preparation makes thinking on your feet a lot easier.
Plans are nothing. Planning is everything
--As Winston Churchill--
This should be tattooed on every facilitator's palm so they can remember it when the design flies out the window. Keep up the great journals, Steve!
Can you relate to
the situation above? How do you balance controlling and catalyzing? Please reply to this email and share
your comments. I'd love to hear from you.
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